Add NodeDiscovery: multi-hop peer crawl with UDP-ping preference

- Implement NodeDiscovery engine: known-peer table (DynArr) with a
  per-tick seed/ping/query/connect state machine driven by the node
  maintenance thread; bounded multi-hop crawl (FANOUT peers per node,
  hop-capped) that connects to reachable peers lowest-ping-first
- Add GET_PEERS/PEERS TCP opcodes for peer-list exchange, handled on
  both inbound and outbound connections
- Measure UDP round-trip time and pass it to the on_pong callback
  (previously the send timestamp was only used for retries)
- Advertise each node's listen port in HELLO/ACK_HELLO and store it
  per-connection, so inbound-only peers and non-default ports are
  discoverable (length-guarded parse; wire-compatible with old peers)
- Wire a udp_node_t + node_discovery_t into net_node_t: init/start in
  Node_Create, tick in the maintenance loop, teardown in Node_Destroy
  (stop UDP before destroying discovery to avoid callback races)
- Add Node_ConnListenEndpoint / Node_GetPeerEndpoints helpers to derive
  peers' listen endpoints (outbound: dialed port; inbound: advertised),
  with IPv4-mapped-IPv6 normalization and IP+port dedup
- Match ping pong/timeout callbacks by peer address (the UDP layer owns
  the nonce), fixing discovered peers stuck UNREACHABLE
- Ping the peer's listen port instead of the ephemeral TCP source port
  (fixes the original stub so pongs actually return)
- Add `peers` CLI command to dump the discovery table (endpoint/hop/
  state/ping)
- Add discovery tunables to constants.h (fanout, max hops, target
  connections, timeouts, caps)

include/nets/net_node.h

@@ -10,6 +10,10 @@
 
 #include <constants.h>
 #include <packettype.h>
+#include <udpd/udpnode.h>
+
+// Forward declaration - the discovery state is defined in nodediscovery.c (opaque here).
+typedef struct node_discovery node_discovery_t;
 
 #include <stddef.h>
 
@@ -40,6 +44,9 @@ typedef struct {
     pthread_t maintenanceThread;
     volatile int maintenanceRunning;
     int maintenanceIntervalMs;
+    // UDP ping/pong daemon (latency oracle) and peer discovery state
+    udp_node_t* udpNode;
+    node_discovery_t* discovery;
 } net_node_t;
 
 net_node_t* Node_Create();
@@ -71,4 +78,15 @@ void Node_Client_OnConnect(tcp_connection_t* client);
 void Node_Client_OnData(tcp_connection_t* client);
 void Node_Client_OnDisconnect(tcp_connection_t* client);
 
+void Node_GetClientList(net_node_t* node, tcp_connection_t** outClients, size_t* outCount);
+
+// Computes a connection's peer listen endpoint (IP + advertised/dialed listen port) into *out.
+// Outbound: the dialed peerAddr port already is the listen port. Inbound: uses peerListenPort.
+// Returns non-zero on success (usable endpoint with a known, non-zero port), zero otherwise.
+int Node_ConnListenEndpoint(const tcp_connection_t* conn, struct sockaddr_storage* out);
+
+// Fills outEndpoints with the listen endpoints of all current connections (inbound + outbound),
+// deduped by IP+port. Returns the number of endpoints written (<= maxOut).
+size_t Node_GetPeerEndpoints(net_node_t* node, struct sockaddr_storage* outEndpoints, size_t maxOut);
+
 #endif