Add NodeDiscovery: multi-hop peer crawl with UDP-ping preference

- Implement NodeDiscovery engine: known-peer table (DynArr) with a
  per-tick seed/ping/query/connect state machine driven by the node
  maintenance thread; bounded multi-hop crawl (FANOUT peers per node,
  hop-capped) that connects to reachable peers lowest-ping-first
- Add GET_PEERS/PEERS TCP opcodes for peer-list exchange, handled on
  both inbound and outbound connections
- Measure UDP round-trip time and pass it to the on_pong callback
  (previously the send timestamp was only used for retries)
- Advertise each node's listen port in HELLO/ACK_HELLO and store it
  per-connection, so inbound-only peers and non-default ports are
  discoverable (length-guarded parse; wire-compatible with old peers)
- Wire a udp_node_t + node_discovery_t into net_node_t: init/start in
  Node_Create, tick in the maintenance loop, teardown in Node_Destroy
  (stop UDP before destroying discovery to avoid callback races)
- Add Node_ConnListenEndpoint / Node_GetPeerEndpoints helpers to derive
  peers' listen endpoints (outbound: dialed port; inbound: advertised),
  with IPv4-mapped-IPv6 normalization and IP+port dedup
- Match ping pong/timeout callbacks by peer address (the UDP layer owns
  the nonce), fixing discovered peers stuck UNREACHABLE
- Ping the peer's listen port instead of the ephemeral TCP source port
  (fixes the original stub so pongs actually return)
- Add `peers` CLI command to dump the discovery table (endpoint/hop/
  state/ping)
- Add discovery tunables to constants.h (fanout, max hops, target
  connections, timeouts, caps)

include/packettype.h

@@ -14,7 +14,9 @@ typedef enum {
     PACKET_TYPE_BROADCAST_TX = 7, // Here's a new transaction I want to share with the network
     PACKET_TYPE_ACK_TX = 8, // I have received your transaction, here's what I did with it (response to broadcast)
     PACKET_TYPE_ERROR = 9, // Something went wrong with the packet you sent me, here's an error message (can be response to any packet)
-    PACKET_TYPE_MAX = 10
+    PACKET_TYPE_GET_PEERS = 10, // Who are your peers? Send me a few of them so I can discover more of the network
+    PACKET_TYPE_PEERS = 11, // Here are some of my peers' listen endpoints (response to GET_PEERS)
+    PACKET_TYPE_MAX = 12
 } packet_type_t;
 
 static inline int PacketType_IsValid(uint8_t packetType) {